Hi,
First of all, My sincere apologies for posting few posts and deleting them. I will make sure that this will not be repeated in future. And this post is about a movie that i happened to see today. It was too good. And movie's title is : The Clearing . The story is about a business man- Wayne Hayes (Robert Redford) being kidnapped and the pain his wife -Eileen (Helen Mirren) undergoes.It depicts the true love between the couple. They both love each other but seem unsure of what their lives are all about now that the kids have grown up and left home.
In any relation, trust is the basic need. But, never have enormous trust is yet another lesson. At times you pour loads of love and affection along with trust and the person doesnt value, you feel all the more worse. And this psychology develops like a cat and milk story. ;) Soodu patta poonai thirumba paal kudikka varatham. Katha therilana ask me :D Solren! So atleast for few days you dont trust anyone and on the whole you dont feel like being yourself.
Well this neglected feeling is not only between Lover and Lady love, Husband and Wife, its happens between two friends,workers or anyone. If the trust is shaken, the relationship is also shaken.
This movie speaks about true love which is way beyond just meeting and dating. So watch this movie when you find time, though its a old movie.. :)
54 comments:
//First of all, My sincere apologies for posting few posts and deleting them//
Naan kooda oru thadavai confuse akitten ponna..
Neenga sonna appuram paakama irupoma?? Paakurom :)
>>If the trust is shaken, the relationship is also shaken.
Nalla sonninga! :)
>>Katha therilana ask me :D Solren!
Ennaku intha kathai theriyathu. Appo I can expect it in mail or in next post, right??
@ Karthikeyan
Hehehe.. Amam Amam naa adicha koothukku confuse aagama ;)
@ KK
Hehehe Thanku! :)
@ Nirek
Yeah as u wish :)
What does the movie portray as love?
@ Alex
Wt does ur questn mean? If u meant wt does the movie portray love as??? Then the movie goes abt explaing wt true love is, excelltn part is, even after the wife finds tht this man has an affair with another lady...she stils wants him back..
Bytheway Welcome here! :)
Hmmm...yes, that is what i wanted to know. Because these days, rarely do movies come out trying to show love. Usually it is only about romance.
My pleasure to read your blog. :)
@ Alex
Yeah.. I wantd 2 make a mention of tht.. Its nt abt flirting and dating ;) Its beyond tht :)
@ Appu
Oh apdiya.. Paathuda vendiyathu thaan :)
Thanku for the info..
yengayo nalla sudu pattuteenga polirukku ;)
BTW, you don't expect anything between friendship or love; thats the true meaning of being in relations. The moment you expect and reciprocate for what you got, you loose the real love. Bit confusing, but think about it, you will have some surprises :D
@ Gundumama
Oru mannum purila..
Gundumama is absolutely right. True love (whether romantic, brotherly, familial) is one where you give, forgive and never ask for anything in return. If you get something, fantastic. If you dont, well tough luck. Find someone/something that will reciprocate. A dog maybe?
It sounds simple, but just try it for one day and u'll realize how difficult it is.
Nice story.
I mean the one about the poonai :)
Hi,
I have been reading your blog past5months. Actually i got yours through my brother-in-law's blog.
Guess who is that, you knew him well? Anyway doing great job. ALL THE BEST.
@ Scudie,
Well..I totally agree to what you and Gundumamma have said.
But it takes time to realise certain things in life.. ;)
I mean you will need your own time.. You wont get convinced to people's say unless you really feel so..
We dont expect anything in true love-- Absoultely right.
@ Gundumamma..
Understood now...
@ Talkative man
Hm..Thanku! :P
@ Usha
Am very glad tht u r reading my blog... Thanku for letting me know tht :)
And yeah I know who it is :D
When am here whos tht who broke ur little heart???
Pls dont tell me u r love sick????
Secret Admirer...
@ Anon
Alo..Wer hav i mentioned tht am disapointd in any relation???
its jus a general view... So i dont need any helping hands...or sooothing words..
U have a very Cheap thinking..
//If the trust is shaken, the relationship is also shaken. //
nalla soneeenga.....but, not with every relationship....u c,
Hi ponnarasi
its my first time to ur blog
very interesting
romba nalla vimursanam pandreenga
indha maari neraya movies english la vandhuruku
bytheway
trust is shaken...... thats 100%true ponni
@ Gops
Apdiya?? Like???
@ Jayakarthik
Hi welcome here :)
Thanku for the comments :)
ponni i must thank usha for this
becoz of her only i came to this wonderful site
will come here often for more comment
nice post.. you gotta trust others and without trust you can't achieve anything, but if the trusted doesn't perform as expected, you should just move on.. life is like that..
ethaya namma thalavar stylea sollanum na: "etho paru thambi vazhkai enbama vazha trustu venum ana antha truste vazhkai aiyda kudachu"
@ Jayakartthik...
Thanks 2 U and Usha for making my day :)
Hmmm the theme looks like alaipayuthey, but adhuley accident idhule kidnap....
@ Venkatesh
Hm..very well said :)
Thalaivar yaaru??? Rajini or Ajith??? :-/
Agreed! :)
@ Ram...
Hahaha..Amam..Yenakum ipo thaan strike aaguthu..
But anga young and inga old..So this is kind of matured love ;)
Will definitely try to see this movie. It is a pleasure visiting your blog from time to time. Great mix of "knowledge" and "expression" :) on carefully chosen themes. Keep it coming.
Vayasanaa matured love aa. 30 vayasu kalla kaadhal ellam matured um ille, gud school luvs ellam infatuationum ille. :)
mother and son relation?
Hey Welcome back !! :D It is always nice to read your posts !!
I must watch this movie. I think I have to agree with you on this note-too much of anything is good for nothing !! How true can it be of trust too ?!
Vidya
Hey check this...http://mist-dewdrop.blogspot.com/
indha movie sun tv la poduvaangala :-)
En roommate ennai kolai pannada koraya thittinaan. Although as u said I loved the part where the husband and wife think aboout each other in their last minutes, my friend got pissed off the by so called Suspnse in the movie :-(
oh god...blogger beta again!...im going to move my blog to wordpress.
Sorry for the late commenting.... So u watch englipish movies also ???
You are definetly right in saying that this feeling is between anybody. But I believe in "Forgive and forget" - guess you would remember the mail :).
Ofcourse as a human even I would feel very worse when the person I care so much doesnt really understand that or reciprocate that. But im trying my best to overcome that.. partially succeeded too.
Padam nallauruku nu Neeye sollite, Will definetly try to watch it.
@ Nila
Thanku :) Makes me feel good :) Make ur presence felt often :D
@ Ram..
Hm..Etho solreenga..
@ Gops..
Ellathulayum exception irukku Boss :)
@ Vidya
Yeap..well said :)
@ Vanathi
Yeah on the way!
@ Syam
Sun Tv la enna ;) Naama ketta podhigai'la kooda poduvanga :P
@ Harish
Hahaha..Amam but thts a good theme..May be the way it was taken was nt aprecited by many ;)
@ Sivanesan
Aaaha seri seri maathitu solunga!
@ Sanjayan
Hm..But nt always people are ready 2 follow FORGIVE & FORGET.
Yeah reciprocate panalana kooda ok.. Purinjikavey ilana ;) Matter thaaney... :>
appadina sareeeenga' obbicer....
@ Gops
Aaaha nakkala pocha :O
[:D] Vandhaen vandhaen....meendum naaney vandhaeeeeeeeen ....
Doi, eppo enna vittutu englippes padam elaam paka aramichai-So&SO! (:P) Toy storylerndhu- Titanic varaiku unna "Vaa padam pakalaam'nu" solli ethini dhaba kooptruken....Remba mosam daa doi.... ;)
Hey on a serious note.. ena idhu ippdi oru post- adhum// "This movie speaks about true love which is way beyond just meeting and dating."// What is the happening...enaku theriyama pogaadhu...but fishy!! Nice review abt t movie. Pazhaya padama irundhalum- madhichu ezhudhi irukaai- Paraatukkal. Adutha dhaba enta solama pathey.......ADI IDI MARI VIZHUM! :P
Apala gavanikren unnai ;)
@ Marutham
Finding nemo, VV, Toy story, titanic elamey climax than i saw ;) but this movie... Hmm :P Full'um paatheney... Hehehe...
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