Invisible, Imaginary friend!

A person gets all weird imagination and thoughts when he/she is either in a too good mood or when he/she is in a too bad mood. Few days ago while i was really in a bad mood and i got into my room i was thinking how good it will be if i have a person to share things that bothered me. Because not always you feel like sharing things that puts you off with everyone or even anyone at all. And also not always people are really free or ready to listen to your sorrows.

May be considering the comfort factor it would be great, if you have a friend who is invisible to others and visible only to you and who doesn't really exist at all.

What difference does it make from a reality friend???

• You can vanish away the imaginary friend when you don't want him/her.
• Imaginary friend will be always available for you.
  
• He/She can be as nice as you want and never hurts/annoys you.
• You have the liberty to choose the gender, the looks- height and weight, the complexion etc ;)
  

Clarifications

• I don't mean devilish or any satanic effects
  
• I don't mean to develop any psychological problem. Researchers have proved that it creates positive effect on a person and it need not be considered as a problem.
• I don't refer to talking alone rather imagining someone is with you and you really don't utter words but still communicate with your imaginary, invisible friend.
  

"Researchers have estimated that as many as 65 per cent of children have had an imaginary companion at some point.

But it is not just children who converse with invisible companions. Explorer Dave Mill created his imaginary friend Nobody at the age of 34 as a survival mechanism during a solo walk to the North Pole." as said by one of the researcher.

So who is your imaginary,invisible friend? Have you had any in your child hood? If not create one soon and let me know who it is ;) *winks*

Research related to the post

One more

P.S: I still have 3 pending tags by Badhri, Gils & Logic yet to write. Will do it soon.. Sorry for delaying! :(

Kids or Young adults????

Infinite Talent shows,opportunities as child artists,unlimited exposures in TV and to the public, enormous fame and money. Kids these days have so many talents and proper opportunity along with right place to stage those talents as well. They get to move along with every one easily and come out of being shy bird easily along which the child being innocent also gets reduced. The more a kid is exposed to the outside world the more the kid is entitled to lose its innocence.Are kids matured enough to handle these?

Apart from these talent shows, kids are also going crazy about acting or modeling at a very young age. I was greatly astounded when a child artist in one of the interviews told "Enku neriya uncles kooda act panni, world famous aagnum'nu aasai". Mazhalai kooda maarala! :( I recently heard from a authentic source that a kid is being paid Rs 15K to 20K for a still in the modeling field. And kids who act as child artists in movies are even paid in lakhs. Finally they find no time for self improvement in the long run. They dont have time to their daily home works, most of them do not perform well in their academics. This not only disturbs the kids education but also affects the kids psychologically. According to a research Kids who are made to act in death scenes, who are made to cry before a dead body, casting like the kids close relatives are dead and the kids mourning for that, kids acting like mentally retarded undergo psychological problems. In order to avoid these problems other countries have a rule as to have a child psychiatrist in the shooting spot and kids are allowed to act only in the vacation. Here in India, there is a widespread news that parents are shifting from their own places to places like Mumbai, Kodambakkam where the opportunities for acting is more.

Kids tend to learn bad things from these exposures easily. Starting from using words that are not supposed to be heard from a kids mouth,using vengeance statements as told by the villains & villis in soaps & movies. Kids are no longer behaving like kids! Practically its hard to keep away from these exposures unless and until everyone in the society has concern about the future generation. Preaching & practice Starts from home. Parents avoiding fighting in front of the kids and avoiding playing blame games, avoiding watching violence movies/soaps would contribute to saving the vulnerable kids from bad things. No where i convey the meaning to grow kids naive. Exposure to the right thing at the right age is more important in young ones life!

Photo Courtesy: Glamourhunt.com & vijaytv

By the way my 51st post dedicated to Kids! :D Forgot to mention that the earlier post was my 5oth!

P.S: http://www.bharatstudent.com/index.php?refcode=an274bst
Kindly Spare some time and vote for Taj Mahal! :)

Bday for MY 1st Hero!

Iniya Pirandha naal VaazhthukkaL Appa :D
Dad, you deserve the very best
As that's what you're about
When things don't always go well
You're not the one who cuts out

Your most impressive feature is
You take everything in stride
Giving strength to the ones around you
And leaving a peacefulness inside

Sorting out all the important things
Letting go of all the other
I think that's what makes you
A dear and special father

How Smart you are!

I just want you to know, you mean the world to me. Only a heart as dear as yours would give so unselfishly.

The many things you've done, all the times that you were there. Helps me know deep down inside how much you really care.

Even though I might not say, I appreciate all you do. And I want the man I marry to be a father just like you!

Pa, Now that I’m older, I realize just how smart you are!
Happy Birthday, Appa!

P.S:
Sutta Wordings! Not my own!

5 Unknown things!!!

Long long ago so long ago was tagged by Srikanth . I am extremely sorry for delaying this long! :( Apologies..

I am asked to write 5 things that no one knows about me so far ;) யாருக்காவது ஏற்கனவே தெரிந்திருந்தால்... Kindly adjust with the old datas :D Heheheh..

1. When am angry I would not speak with anyone and i would not feel hungry as well :)) I guess this must have been written under weird tag

2. I always wanted to make friends with girls who wear thavani, valayal and maruthani. Check out this post to know more--- TVM In short traditional girls :) Unfortunately i find very few of them nowadays.

3. I hardly watch TV and especially i hate serials. At times i don't like people who watch TV non stop and bore me as well..

4. I don't watch movies fully. I watch either the 1st half or the last half. Movies that i saw fully are very few :)

5. From childhood Rain kind of gives insecure feeling.I would enjoy the rain only when my loved ones are around or at least in vicinity. So i would rather wanna make sure that everyone are safe to enjoy the rain.

This time I am tagging 5 of my friends whom i have not tagged and who are sure to write the tag. Take your own time. Because i took just 4 months to write this tag. :( Very bad! :(( I still have Raghs tag and 1 more Srikanth's tags :) will write very soon.

Would like to tag:

1. Raghs
2. Pakka Tamizhan
3. Sanjayan
4. GP
5. Protector
6. Harish

P.S: 1. Let me know if any1 is interested in writing the tag :) Will add in the list!
2. Ooops, it gives a picture that am a real bore. Hahaha.. If am who can help it ;) and what does any1 has to do with it as well! :P

Sun signs!

This post is all about sun signs and the people who astounded me with their behaviors as mentioned according to their signs.

Had couple of formalities in college being in the final year. Clearing the library account was one among those. Kadasiya enna books ellam paaka mudiyumo, edukka mudiyumo oru thadava menjudalm'nu ponapo happened to see a book on Sun signs. kooda vanthavanga kitta 15mins apram will c u in canteen'nu seygai kamichitu book'oda okkanthen.

I continued reading about my sun sign. Piscean! Despite of being insulted by many of my friends with the most often asked question, 'you are a piscean???? ' I still tried to find some similarities with my sun sign.

I googled couple of sites as well. Hehehe.. Vela vetti illana ipadi than :P Well, you can also try finding the similarities and differences between your characters and the sun signs. Provided you are really jobless :D

Googled results from various sites, about pisceans!

• Whoever said, "I don't want to be a millionaire-I just want to live like one," was truly reflecting the Piscean philosophy.
• You may have read that the Pisces symbol of two fish, ? swimming in opposite directions, indicates that the Nep­tunian is torn by dual desires. It's not so. Dual desires belong to Gemini. The two fish in reversed directions symbolize the choice given Pisces: to swim to the top-or to swim to the bottom and never quite reach his goals. Pisces must leam that he is to serve mankind in some way, and eschew worldly possessions. Piscean Einstein, who swam upstream, formulated a whole new world of relative time. Pisceans who swim downstream serve by washing dishes or shoveling snow. The choice is always there, be­cause there's never a lack of unusual talent, but the fish, with eyes that see clearly on both sides, sometimes has difficulty seeing straight ahead. Pisces often retreats-either to the sublime heights of a dedicated professional life, or to stimulants, artificial emotions and false excitement.
• Pisces may share compassion for the ill with Virgo, but he takes the extra step to try to understand the hearts of the burdened and the friendless, the failures and the misfits, no matter how weird or how rejected by so­ciety. The fish will gently comfort those whom Virgo feels are weak by choice, and therefore undeserving. If you need a dime or a dollar, a large loan, or just a small en­couragement that no one else would give, go to Pisces. You'll get no lectures and no glances of superiority. He judges no man-thief, murderer, addict, pervert, sinner, saint, hypocrite or liar. Greed, lust, sloth and envy will bring no critical wrath, if he's a typical Neptunian. His understanding overflows, along with whatever practical help he's able to offer. He senses every vice and virtue, and he knows each pitfall.

You'll frequently find fish who have buried their personal dreams to brighten odd corners of the lives of relatives and friends, or to bring the gift of tears and laughter to the public through the stage, at the cost of the privacy Pisces seeks and needs. Yet Neptune is a deceptive planet, capable of giving birth to natures that twist and turn in two directions at once, distorting the truth, an influence which often causes Pisces to hide his real emotions.

• The Pluto of Scorpio combines with your Neptune in a unique manner. It adds up to intuitive knowledge in both of you. You tune in on Scorpio. You learn, and teach: you and a Scorpio might make a wonderful pair in teaching metaphysics. That is, you are a team that could promote the unusual, the unique, and the areas, which are usually reserved for people with exotic tastes.
• Pisces-Gemini is filled with ideas. And some- times the ideas are fired at you as if with a machine gun. It is up to you to choose the best, to be discriminating, to be selective. Gemini stimulates your intellectual curiosity. The two signs are not well aspected; there are problems to overcome. There are obstacles. But, on the positive side, these can be regarded as healthy challenges.
• You are generous, caring, and kind. However, you tend to be more concerned about other people's problems than your own. You are not a decisive person and may change your mind many times. You are also a follower, but you do not always choose good leaders. Because of your good qualities, you are popular with many types of people, but when you are secretive you drive these friends away. Weak concentration skills can get you into trouble at school.

Sabba, Ippovey kanna katuthey ;) Seri seri.. Yarum enna thitatheenga for wasting ur time :P Anyone interested to contribute to extend the interest in this study, please drop in your date of birth and you might have 2 answer couple of personal questions as well..... Hehehehehe

Disclaimer:

Dont have any wrong ideas! Vettiya irunthathala intha vetti vela, vera entha ennamum intha post'ku kaaranam illai! Hehehehe..... So, Dont shoot any wrong or embarrassing questions pls :D

Dare 2 do so.. Appala Osama Maama than :P

The intimacy in few relations are shortlived???

Couple of things kept me busy for a while and here am with a very nice template given by Badri and an inquisitive post.

There are so many people we happen to meet in our life. Among which only with quite few we establish friendship and not all friends make a profound impact in our lives. Friendship is the only word which can be used to define a relation between a 19 year old and 90 year old. There might be a very good friend with whom we share everything that happens around us and as days pass by each of us might get busy with the new phase of life or get busy with the mechanical life. Then the closeness in the relation slowly reduces. Of course we don’t forget the person who was very close to us at some point in life but still we feel something is missing. We still might be in contact with that friend but the voidness in the intimacy would be felt easily.

At every stage of our life, there must be someone very close or someone whom we really liked much. As soon as we think of the days in school, in college or in a particular house or in a street or in an office there must be some one flashing in our mind who was exceptionally close than the rest of the others. I just happened to see a photo of me and one of my friend who was very close to me few years back. Her grandfather had professional contact with dad and then we happened to be more of family friends. She used to stay with us in our house and we have had all kind of pranks and plays and talks. There was nothing that we failed to do together. Now their place is far from ours though we are still in contact. But still the intimacy which we had that time is missing. The situation is worse if there are best friends among which the genders are opposite. And one gets committed to work or to another person in life and again the intimacy is lost. I was just wondering in few relations if the intimacy is very short lived or it appears that way. But I just learnt that never fail to express that you feel great, comfortable with that person at that point of time. Practically speaking being close with all the friends from our childhood is not possible. Express that their presence in your life is valued with your words or a warm hug would speak more than any number of words. At least you can be happy that you made some one feel great about oneself.

Expressing that you are happy because of some one is a great open secret but very rarely we realize and make use of it. May it be between friends or between a student and a teacher or between mom and kid or between husband and wife or in any relation, express their presence in your life is valued and it can never be replaced we will happen to see enigmatic happiness in oneself and in others life as well.

Who is answerable????

There is a well reputed university called SRM in a place called Potheri which is located 35kms (approximately) away from the city. Click to see the map

To reach the institution few people generally take Bus or Train and few others use their own transport. But majority of the people find the Train journey to be convenient. In between Guindy and Potheri there are at least not less than 5 colleges. So not just the people of SRM take train but also others. So mostly the morning trains are filled with majority of these college goers/staffs. In between Potheri and Airport, Meenambakkam there are around 8 stations. For the past 3weeks, people who want tickets to these eight stations are denied of tickets and are forced to take ticket till Airport for no use. From Potheri towards Meenambakkam, Guduvancherry, Urappakkam, Vandalur, Perungalathur, Tambaram Sanatorium, Tambaram, Chromepet, Pallavaram are the eight stations. Similarly from Perungalathur till Chengalpat there are no tickets. In between there are around four stations. So if the passenger’s destination is going to be any of these 4 stations again that person is forced to take ticket till Chengalpat. May be not finding seat is tolerable but not getting tickets is something which can not be accepted/tolerated. Mismanagement occurs in any organization, but when it deals with the public and public's money, is it not the responsibility of the Railway departments to plan for enough to tickets. At least this should not prolong more than 2 to 3 days.

If a person has to travel up & down, 5days in a week, then his expense would be Rs 70, which actually would be Rs 40. So weekly he/she is again forced to waste Rs 30. Logically speaking, now it’s been 3weeks so every passenger has to get back 30*3= Rs 90.

China is celebrating their hike in the total profit in Railways and Our Railways department is keen only on boasting their wise plan, having no concern about the service they provide : ) Well, now I wont encourage any kind of discouraging comments, am looking forward for any valid, useful suggestions as what can be done : ) Of course take any other means of transport is another idea. But only convenient means are always preferred.

Stones that I threw:

1) Rendu naalu without’la vanthen because vaitherichala irunthuchu for wasting money helplessly :P

2) Filed a complaint in Railways department which I believe is being used for packing snacks! :D

3) Hunting about RTI

Updated: 1) Picture of Email Sent on Feb 28th to 'THE HINDU'.

2) Screen Shot of the forum post, as suggested by 'LOGIC' in comments column on March 13.

P.S 1: Don't throw stones on my blog ;) for this post :P

P.S 2:

• Thanku for the link- Badhri, all the contact addresses displayed there are only for the Road Transpost :) Thanks a lot for the interest. : )
  
• Thanku for the link - Sriram, //Commission accepts complaints only against specified categories of officers who are posted in the organisation which are under the Commissions jurisdiction. Please see Complaint Policy for details.// Says the link. So i didnt submit the complaint :) Thanks a lot for the interest :)
  
• Thanks a lot for the suggestions from the other fellow bloggers also :) Tried those that are easy to access :D
  

Going abroad???!!!!!?!?!?!

Couple of things were confusing or rather bugging for the past few days. Amidst which I was happy to see two awesome templates given by Sanjayan and Ranjhith. : ) Thanks a lot. Oru paarattu vizha vekkalamnu yerpadu aitu iruku ;) Hehehe.. Manamarntha Nanrigal! :) Will put those in few days since this was replaced only few days ago. So wait to see the nice template friends.
Matter'ku varen ;)


Disclaimer: This post might not be interesting to some and even bugging for few of my friends :)

It was astounding to see many people leaving abroad for jobs these days.Till the age of 21 or 22 we are busy with our studies. Finishing the high school, getting admission in a good college to get a degree. And our parents are busy earning to spend for these expenses along with the day to day life expenditures. Somewhere after the age of 23 people get opportunities to go abroad and make a decent earning. Am entitled to do a clarification at this point. Am not talking about foreign visits in which case you stay there for some time and get back to your home land. Am talking about staying there for a very long duration and about settling there. Foreign opportunities will give you international exposure, experience in competitive world, stabilizes one's financial status. True, agreed. But all these at what cost?

* In many homes, this might be the time where the parents might have quit the career under the name Voluntary retirement or retirement. They might want to spend more time with their children or grand children. One has to miss this good time being with the family together.
* If the person has kids then the kids are missing the grand parents love & affection, the bed time stories and so on.
* Festivals like Pongal,Diwali,Christmas are being missed.
* Missing friends and relatives.
* We as sons and daughters should give a supporting hand to parents when they are in need of. No parents would even let us know that they want us to be with them. One reason- Pride takes control ;) and the second - They after all wants us to be happy. But its we the kids who should give moral and financial support when really needed without being asked or hinted for.


Early days people came from village to towns and cities for job opportunities since they had no opportunities in villages. But now India is not like that. It is just that we are aspiring for more in all aspects. As far as money is concerned, 'contentness' is a word which can never be used. First, one might want to stay abroad for a year or more to buy a car for your home in India and then another couple of years to built a house and many more years and many more commitments. All these small things which would make a happy home might appear negligible in comparison with the money, luxury and experience we earn abroad. But in the long run what do we earn in life apart from money? In the process of earning we miss many nice and pleasant things. I DON'T MEAN one should restrict going abroad but rather limit the time spending away from home, friends and relatives. A person settling in U.S or U.K, is it not like plucking a plant from its field rooting it in a different Island. Is life, all about spending 20 years of mechanical life at home land and then flying away from home and spending the rest of your life miles away???

1. Am not talking about going abroad but staying there forever
2. Am not talking just about home but also many other pleasant things being in your home land.
3. Finally, staying for few days or settling forever is one's own wish ;)

Tag time : )

Hi, Have been Tagged by Mystery . I am extremely sorry for replying really late to your tag. Apologies : )

1. Were you named after anyone?
No.

2. Do you wish on stars?
Yeah the very first time I wished it came true. So after that I don’t miss to wish.

3. When did you last cry?
I don’t rembr bad events and if even I do I mind sharing it in public. :)

4. Do you like your handwriting?
Yeah

5. What is your favourite meat?
Nothing

6. What is your most embarrassing CD on your shelf?
Nothing (If its classified under embarrassing, Y wud any1 share it here :-/ )

7. If you were another person, would YOU be friends with you?
Yeah.

8.Are you a daredevil?
Er.. No idea.

9. How do you release anger?
If its becoz of some1 else would express by reluctant answers.

10. Where is your second home?
Mysore

11. Do you trust others easily?
Depends on the other person.

12. What was your favourite toy as a child?
Nothing

13. What class in school/college do you think is totally useless?
Value Education

14. Do you use sarcasm a lot?
I use but I don’t think it would come under the LOT category.

15. Have you ever been in a mosh pit?
If its something dealing with Concerts- ‘NO’ is the answer

16.What do you look for in a guy/girl?
I have never given a thought like this.

17. Would you bungee jump?
Nope

18. Do you untie your shoes when you take them off?
Yeah

19.what's your favourite ice cream?
Butter scotch

20. What are your favourite colours?
Black & Blue

21. What are your least favourite things?
Doing anything when I really don’t feel like doing

22. How many people do you have a crush on right now?
Huh… Even if I do, am not foolish enough to give the count here ;)

23. Who do you miss most right now?
:-/ Family members- in Mysore & U.S

24. What are you listening to right now?
Unakkul Naan – Pachai Kili muthucharam

25. If you were a crayon, what colour would you be?
Fresh Green

26. What is the weather like right now?
Ramanan uncle kitta than kekanum :P

27. Last person you talked to on the phone?
One of my collegemate

28. The "first" thing you notice about the opposite sex?
Hair style & Watch.

29. Do you like the person who sent you this?
Yeah ofcourse I do

If i dont i wont bother to write 50 long questions : )

30. How are you today?
Am doing great. ..

31. Favourite non alcoholic drink?
Sugarcane Juice. Its been long since I had this : (

32. Favourite alcoholic drink?
Have heard more about Vodka. I guess only if u taste couple of them u can decide which one is ur fav :-/

33. Natural hair colour?
Black.

34. Eye colour?
Black

35. Wear contacts?'
No

36. Siblings?
Yeah

37. Favourite month?
March

38. Favourite food?
Butter Naan, Paneer pulav. (List is too big am limiting myself atleast here : ) ) )

39. Favourite day of the year?
Sep 15 – The day two families were really happy.

40. Have you ever been too shy to ask someone out?
One among many questions which are really absurd. (I should know who created this tag? )

41. Scary movies or happy endings?
I love only the climax part in any movie. :D

42. Summer or winter?
Depends on what I wish to do. If its just sit back and relax, then I would prefer winter. And if I have some thing to read/ some work to do then would prefer summer.

43. Holi or Diwali?
None : P - Can I have Pongal? Hehehehe

44. Do you like your name?
I love my name

45. What book/magazine are you reading?
’Inside an elusive mind - LTTE Prabhakaran’

46. What's on your mouse pad?
Blue sky and a moon

47. What did you watch on TV last night?
I didn’t watch anything.

48. Favourite Smell?
Before the rain showers, cooking smell..

49. Have you ever regretted breaking up with someone?
No

50. Most tiresome thing you’ve ever experienced/done?

People explaining something to me when am really in no mood to listen to it.

And half way through I should interrupt and say “Pls I will listen later”

I don’t like doing this and going through this.

Have been tagging many friends off late and I understood am bothering them by doing so. So am not tagging anyone this time.

Disclaimer: Reading my answers for the tag is the most boring work you can end up doing. It will be really really boring. Beware!

"Tell me your dream"- Tag

Hi,

Its been long since i got to write any tag. Was craving for some tag. But got none :D So just gave a thought to start a new tag called Dream Tag.

How do we go about writing this tag???

Make a post describing either the dream that came true or the dream that would never come true :) Which means one should'nt write about a dream that you think might come true in future :D Gotcha???? If you are a person who gets no dreams like me :( Then write about the dream that you dreamt while you were very much awake- I mean daydream. Hehehehe...
You can tag any number of people as u wish. :) Or you can also tag none.

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My Dream Tag! :)

I got the weirdest dream ever in my life. There is an apartment which is like a mini village/city. It has 3 blocks and the block in the dead end is block C and the middle one is Block B and the one nearer to the gate is Block A. In the block C there lives a old lady who is always seen in wheel chair roaming the building premises. Another old lady is employed by this owner of the house. This owner old lady is too bad. She always tortures this old lady who is working for her. Owner oldie has a daughter in law and a son. Daughter in law is also scared by the oldie.

In Block B there is a teen age girl who is kind of mentally retarded. She scratches and hurts people with knife or any other object badly whenever she finds people around her. Though she does things unknowingly she is also scary.

In Block A there is cute little kid. This kid always gives a devilish laugh. The daughter in law in the Block C sneaks through the backside of the building to avoid mother in laws words and tortures. But this devilish kid shouts daughter in laws name and says “paati manju manju manju inga”. And the oldie and the teenager who is not mentally well don’t go well with each one. So the care taker of the teenager and the care taker of the old lady are in pathetic condition. One day they are taken for a walk and if it so happens that they meet each other one in wheel chair and the other one walking. The old lady screws the oldie who is working for her. She uses all filthy languages and scolds for making her see the teenager. So the oldie who is working for her always has to play hide and seek with the teenager girl. She hides in a place and sees if the teenager is coming for walking. For no reason am getting scared looking at the old lady, small kid and the teenager. My house is in 1st floor and I am not taking stairs or the lift to climb up. Am literally climbing or creeping by the outer boundary walls daily. I don’t have much role in this dream. :-/ Why did I get such a dream …. It was damn scary. Whenever I see some strangers like oldie, teenager or a kid it scares me to the hell.

p.s: Sorry my dream was really weird :P And am really thankful if u spent time reading it...Hehehehe

Thottrathil maatram :)

Hi Hi Hi :)

After couple of blogger friends request I have changed the blog template :)

Blog puthu thotram continue panalama illa back to old template?

Princessofgold's blog template is open to critics for few days.. Hehehe...

Have a nice day,

Ponnarasi.K

Saddam executed! Is this justice???

Terrorists are people who are to be alienated or punished?
Am not justifying their actions rather trying to see the other side of the coin
Terrorists are after all working for a social cause unlike us the people and the politicians. They don’t demand for lakhs and crores to make a sophisticated living. Instead they are sacrificing their lives for their people to make the people live. Whereas politicians like Mr Bush ,Mr Blair are being paid to invade a country’s privacy and these politicians are doing things to make their living. Are they working for a common cause like the Terrorists.
Why are terrorists created?
When your voice and desires to be fulfilled happen to reach deaf ears, you naturally try to take a powerful weapon to make things done. At times this weapon happens to be violence/terrorism.
When Bush and Saddam are like two kings to each of their countries, who gave the power to Bush to invade other country. Well, he did suspect that death causing weapons are being made and he found nothing of that sort. Is it not time for him to feel guilty for this first of all? Is it not other countries responsibility to warn U.S not to enforce power on Iran this way? Is it not the responsibility of everyone living in this world to raise voice for such an injustice?
Death Penalty for Saddam:
Punishment for even the most heinous crimes should have the intent to reform the convict. The death penalty helps neither the accused not society. It only creates hatred and more rivalry.
Whatever be the case, Finally a great man is dead.
May it be Veerappan or Saddam or Osama, they have some notion. And that is not self centered like the others in the world. If we say Mahatma, Nehru or any other freedom fighter is great. Even these people are great and to be respected in some other way. Everyone falls under one category “Fighting for common cause”, “Sacrificing their lives for others well being”. Terrorists are not after all fools to alienate themselves and make the toughest living.
Ask a poor or a rich What his ultimate aim in life is One’s might be to earn money,fame or to get his/her true love. But it all leads to HAPPINESS . One after all wants to be happy. And so does the terrorists feel.
Happiness and fulfillment will come to you not when you are making yourself the centre of your universe but when you forget yourself and look outside.
Sacrifice something for someone and you will know what real happiness is. Initially you might feel aloof from the world or even a loser but in the long run you will feel proud of yourself : )

Disclaimer: Am not saying all that Saddam did was right.. Rather the way he or this issue was treated is bad. Him killing many people is a differnet issue 2 b dealt with. Am just talking about a ruler being treated like this is unfair.

Note : Related post -1) http://neo-dreamz.blogspot.com/2006/12/saddam-hussein-executed.html

2) http://humanuniverse.blogspot.com/2006/12/why-dont-we-hang-president-bush.html

3) http://princessofgold.blogspot.com/2005/10/greatest-glory-in-living-is-not-in.html

As stolen from My diary

Make a guess abt these places name in the pic... Hehehe...

Awesome Vacation. This vacation was too good. Listening to favorite songs in Mp3 player that am obsessed with for the past couple of days. Few are….
1) Paint my love
2) Yen veetu thottathil poovellam kettu paar
3) Anbey yen anbey
4) Sorry seems to be the hardest word
5) Paakathey Paakathey panjangatha pakathey…Hehehe.. Cool song…
6) Uruguthey maruguthey…

Makes you feel contented in life, if you have your loved ones around you in the travel, listening to your favorite songs, gazing at the cloud and stars from the train window, at times glancing the novel which I tried to read. Maaan, I tell you one can do anything in world for this moment to happen again in life. Among the loved ones of mine had only 3 of them in this journey. Had I had all of them in the trip, would have jumped up and down. Had gr8 time... Took 150 snaps :)) Photokku sirichu sirichu tired'a pochu...Hehehe.. Semma scene ila :P Summava.. Unga ooru koothu enga ooru koothu..Oooru patta koothu than ;)

Every step in life is a chapter learnt in life. It makes a difference among people to people only on how easily one learns and how tough the other one learns. So I just learnt that b4 it gets tougher learn it effectively and proceed to the other chapters. ;) Am making an entry of this moment, so I can cherish these memories later and also hope that this day will come again & very often in life :D Any journey I never want it to end. May it be starting from home or leaving home. Destination should never come is all I wish for… But it never happens :((

Bytheway, Oru mukiyamana vishayam am nt this sentimental always… Epovathu enakula irukra poona mulichikum ;)

Imp. Note : We might not be aware that certain things in life would make us or the people around enormously happy. So give a try. If u r ever bored or fed up in life, plan a tour and have fun. Build up konjam over’a iruntha Kindly echukuse me.. ;) I felt I shud share this… Ithanala yarathu happy’ana santhosam thaney : )

And am aware I didn’t make a mention about the place or the places I visited because subject athuvaida koodathey ;) Subject line--- Be happy and make others happy : )

Making sure that your loved ones are safe and happy is what really makes you happy

Seri ;) uploading few photos..and try 2 make a guess were this place is…. :P

The Clearing!

Hi,
First of all, My sincere apologies for posting few posts and deleting them. I will make sure that this will not be repeated in future. And this post is about a movie that i happened to see today. It was too good. And movie's title is : The Clearing . The story is about a business man- Wayne Hayes (Robert Redford) being kidnapped and the pain his wife -Eileen (Helen Mirren) undergoes.It depicts the true love between the couple. They both love each other but seem unsure of what their lives are all about now that the kids have grown up and left home.

In any relation, trust is the basic need. But, never have enormous trust is yet another lesson. At times you pour loads of love and affection along with trust and the person doesnt value, you feel all the more worse. And this psychology develops like a cat and milk story. ;) Soodu patta poonai thirumba paal kudikka varatham. Katha therilana ask me :D Solren! So atleast for few days you dont trust anyone and on the whole you dont feel like being yourself.
Well this neglected feeling is not only between Lover and Lady love, Husband and Wife, its happens between two friends,workers or anyone. If the trust is shaken, the relationship is also shaken.

This movie speaks about true love which is way beyond just meeting and dating. So watch this movie when you find time, though its a old movie.. :)

Missd ya Bloggiie :D

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Yet another phase in life : )

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Ajith- The Ultimate Star

I have few very important notes before proceeding to read further. :)

1.This is not yet another movie review.
2. Am not a crazy fan of Ajith or Asin .
3. Am yet to see the movie :D .

Heard that the movie "Varalaru" is going to be a big hit and its not just yet another dual character but 3 ajiths. Hahaha! Well, you might be wondering among all the actors why does he alone deserve a post in my great blog :P He is a man of courage. Many of us would not even turn the next day to school if we had failed in a running race. ;) It needs lot of courage to stand again after a great fall. That too a fall which is more like a life or death situation. And giving a try again after falling in front of so many people needs real courage. Ajith doesn’t attract people because of his smartness or his style, he attracts people for his principles which many of the actors lack. He is a person who has his own, distinct principles. And of course he has gained many fans like me because of those principles. :D

I am trying to go to theatre and watch this movie. Paatha theatre'la thaan paapen :).I wish everyone tries to do the same : ) Practically its not possible to give him money or a movie but watching a movie indirectly does all these ;) So ithayathu panuvomey Even if you don’t like Ajith there is this female Asin atleast for her please watch the movie in theatre only : ) Illa Asin and Ajith rendu perum pudikathunaa..Enakkaga konjam poi paarungoooo ;) Hehehehe…. Doing this is not a great deal for such a great personality. The great personality’nu naa refer panrathu is Ajith and not me or Asin :p. Naa Ajith pic mattum thedi paathen onum avlo nalla illa. OK'nu irunthathula Asin was also there..Seri kootam koodumey'nu pona poguthu'nu potuten.. Bytheway inga paathi peru Asin moonja paathu thaan intha post padicheenganum I know.. I know I know :P HAHAHAHA... Its too late... :O Going 2 sleep! Tata!


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Happy bday 2 my blog! :D

Hi,
Innayoda oru varusham aagudhu indha blog start panni : ) Happy bday! Hehehehe.
Ok! Matter'ku varuvom... Have been tagged by Badri .
This tag is called Weird tag. I am supposed to write 6 weird things about me. : )
Eluthuratha pathi onnum ila.. Neenga ellam bayapadama iruntha seri ;)

1. Psycho in me: If I don’t like someone I try to irriate that person for nothing. I know this is silly.. maathikanum
2. Thinni pandaram : Ethathu sapdanum’nu thoni athu veetla irunthutta podum neram kaalam ellam kedayathu… hehehe night 2manikku kooda saptruken.. By the way am talking about snacks and not about food : D
3. Kids: Whenever I try to gain kids attention, they just don’t pay a shit. They ignore as if am doing some job of mine. paathuttu sattaye panama thirumbunga.. Punch- They sleep as soon as they come to me! Makes me go crazy. Infact ithanala I don’t know to play with them.. Hahaha
4. Dreams: I don’t get dream that frequently. People say I do get but I forget. I feel not getting dream is really weird. Off late am getting couple of dreams :D
5. No weird: Hehehe… Yenna panna thedu thedu’nu thedren..Weird kedakkavey matenguthu :P
6. Bore Factor: I often get bored. And its too often that I don’t feel like watching a movie for long since its boring. Instead Fast forward panni Climax mattum paaka thonum ;)


I would like to tag:
Pls check out your comments column. If at all I leave any1 who is interested in writing the tag…Jus gimme a hint, I would tag… :) Tag panittu apram bulb adikiratha vida ithu parava illa :)


Have a nice day,
Ponnarasi.K

Thavani- Valayal- Marudhani!

Thavani- Valayal- Marudhani - The trio package missing off late!


Intention of this post is to rejuvenate the memories of the above trio pack. Ippo ellam gramathulaye ponnunga thavani katrathu illa. ithula enga nagarathula. Ithellam pathathathukku intha thuni kada karanunga to make money puthusa pudavai’la pocket’am. Cha. Asingama thitanum pola varuthu. Urupuduvaanungala… Like pant pockets! Am nt sure about the shop’s name.. Let it come 2 the market. Naaradichidalam

Daily wear’a iruntha kaalam poi ipo ellam wearing saree and poo vekrathu ellam occasional wear’a pochu… Etho oru kalyanam, bday na thaan wearing.. Hm.. Infact even if we wish to wear its like some what odd because we got used to not wearing and wearing only on occasions.

North india’la irunthu vanthathum vanthuthu intha mehendi marudhani kaanama pochu. But ithu alteast okay. Not bad! It has its sign somewhere atleast. Valayal innum mosam. Valayal irukra edathula kerchief illa cryband thaan iruku.. Seri etho ellarum nalla iruntha seri.

Athaga patathu naa yenna solla varenna.. lets propose a day for this trio pack and make it a must for the gals to wear it that particular day… Say it like TVM day.. elathukum day iruku…ithuku iruka koodatha. Propose some day with some valid reason. And it should not be like yet another bday or wedding day which comes once in a year. It should be atleast once in a week! Or atleast every month 2nd Friday something like this. ;) Propaganda panidalam.

Comedy! Intha post’ku oru podava katna ponnu photo net’la theduna. Kedacha ponnunga ellam podavaya kattama kaila pudichittu nikuthunga.. : ) ) I was searching for a photo where the girl should not look @ the camera.. Ithu thaan kedachuthu. Antha ponnu kaila irukka mater matum kindly ignore! :P

P.S: 1) As usual--- nee epdi naa epdi ellam personal quesn kekka koodathu pullangala :D
2) Thanks to Vaishnav & Balamurugan for the Photo source :)

Rombavey vetti vela! No critics pls :D

Kindly Tolerate! :))





Hi All :)
Konjam chinna pulla thanama oru vela panirukom ;) Pls tolerate.. Hehehe
Would like to know abt each one's perception on the above kirukkal...
It took hours for me to finish this kirukkal. And will be happy if some1 does this a fair kirukkal :))

Have a nice day,
Ponnarasi.K