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Friday, August 04, 2006

Cry House!!!

Hi Hi Hi ;)
Its been very long since I wrote a post. Yenna panrathu rumba busy’nu sollanum’nu thaan aasai … Hehehe.. Busy ellam ila.. Its just that the laziness disease has caught me. Was busy reading few interesting books. Will later write a review about it if I think am matured enough to do it. Ulagathula ethetho nadakuthu hm… End of the day if every one is doing good. Nallathu thaney : )

I was just thinking about the laughing therapy. Heard from many that it is really wonderful and it really works well. But I just felt there should be something called crying therapy where anyone with below such reasons can come in and cry and go.

1)Who has a problem to mull over without any solution

2)Who is in deep trouble and its impossible to come over that

3)Who feels or regrets about the past

4)Etc etc etc


Sounds funny or weird isn’t it???? But give a thought and we will know the benefits of this. Because many a times people are in search of shoulders to cry. If at all we find one, either we don’t want the other person to know about the reason for our gloominess or we feel shame to cry. Laughing therapy works in few cases. Agreed. May be it works when we are in the 1 st stage of our gloominess. Second stage is a stage where we have no words to talk or discuss about it to any one anymore. Appo poi loosu mari sirichitu irukka mudiyuma… Main condition to enter this place is Ethukku azhura’nu mattum yarathu ketta mothalla thooki velila potudanum I don’t ask my friends why they are dull or bothered. Will patiently listen to them when they readily come up with that issue and will try to give some sensible suggestion. Otherwise would just lend my ears. I feel listening to others trouble is half solving it. : )
Let me clear one point. I don’t mean everyone should cry for everything/ anything. I just mean when you feel you have to or you want to, there should be a place for that. There might arise a question “We can do this anywhere. Why a place for this?” Psychologically when we see someone else having some problem we feel ours is far better. We also feel we are not the only one facing things this way.

Oru prayer house, light house irukkum bothu naama yen oru “Crying house” vekka koodathu or “Shoulder 4 u” program nadatha koodathu.. Hm. Well ! Will wait and execute the plan when time comes : ) Ungalukku ellarukkum free admission… Hehehe..Fees vaangama ulla sethuka solren. Hehehehe.

p.s: Mokka mari Y this post, Any problem?, wts up in life? nu ethathu ketta… Apram Osama maama solli…… ayoo already orey galatta’va iruku ethukku maama ellam? Illa! : ) Hehehe…

Have a nice day,
Ponnarasi.K

31 comments:

senthil natarajan said...

yenna madam aachu... nice thought... but hmm... mmm crying? i think guys if they want to cry...would like to cry in privacy!
so lets call it 'girls crying house' ;)

Badri said...

thalai, ennadu ithu..over sentiment??
Athuku dan Megaserials and "Kathai alla niijam" pola nirya programs ellam TV la iruke..CRY house ellam ethuku!!

Ghost Particle said...

hullo ponnarasi...! how r u? Laughing theraphy ah?! I think crying and hugging is much better. Hahaha.../but laughing can take much trouble away from our minds.

Bala.G said...

Ma'am....enna aachu?? hope u r fine... if our friend is dull/sad, nee ennanu vishayatha solra varaikum edhuvum kekka maatennu adam pidika koodaadhu....pakkuvama "enna aachu da?" nu kekanum

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Senthil
Hm.. P.S padikavey mateengala? Cha cha..
BTW girls also feel the same :|

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Badri
Hehehe... Yenna logic ithu :P Apdi paatha cinema'la koodathan kovil,saami,saapadu ellam iruku ;) Athukunnu sapda, kovil pogama vitruvaangala?

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ GP
Inga oruthar... Yen per'a inoru mora ipdi type panna unmaya kolai paniduven :|

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Bala
Sir pls read the P.S.... :| P.s padikka thaan ezhuthurom :((

Gladtomeetin said...

mmmm...Nalla thought thaan :-)) I appreciate it, yevlo thaan there are many people who dont agree to it, i will say really a good idea!

Welcome after a laziness break ;-))
Keep Rocking dear :-))

tamizhan said...

Onnume puriyala, ulagathula..

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Glad 2 meeting
Hehehe... Tht was very sweet of u :) Thanku for ur support ;)

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Thamizhan
Ayoo yenna oru sooooooooper comment.. Epdi ipdilam? :P

Gundu Mama said...

Thanks Ponnarasi!!

Wish you a Happy Friendship Day!!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Gundu mama
Hehehe... Nalla id :P

My days(Gops) said...

i never cry..bcos it doesnt solves my problem.....
(ippadi velia venum'na solluven., but oru sila idhuku 'cry' pannunaa thaaan better'a irrukanum....)
adhuku'nu 'cry house' onnu katti entry fees ellam collect pannuna nallava irrukum.....
he he he..

madam, Any problem?, wts up in life? (aiya osama thaan illai'ey)

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Gops
Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S Read the P.S

My days(Gops) said...

padichiten padichiten padichiten...
summa thaan keten...why'ma kovam? appuram naan cry house poga vendi adhu varum.....solliten

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Gops
Hm...

Vidya said...

You are so right about the listening. Sometimes people need some time & a patient ear to vent out their feelings.

vidya

The Talkative Man said...

what happened to that veerappan book review? :)

:: The Protector :: said...

lolz... nalla idea than... iruthallum yen separate house....ippa than ella vetalyum 6-10 manivarukkum mega serial oduthu, so avvanga vitalae aluthukonga....

Cheers!
:)

:: The Protector :: said...

All people want is someone to listen.
-Hugh Elliott

Cheers!
:)

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Vidya
Yeah... Agreed :)

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Talkative man
Ayayo... Athellam nalla ezhuthanum... :-/ I dont think i can do :)

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ The protector
Er... Hm..

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

BTW i didnt suggest this place 4 me crying... :O General suggestion ba @ Protector...
Nice quote...Apt one. :)

Ram said...

Hey Ponnarasi - good thought.

You know you can always laugh with someone you don't know very well...see something funny, and you can laugh.

But its only with people who you are really close with that you can cry - I don't know if I can share sorrow with strangers...perhaps it is too personal a thing...theriyala...what do you think? sob! sob!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Ram
Amam..very true! Agreed!

Syam said...

//Ungalukku ellarukkum free admission//

free admission venam...fees irundhaalum paravalla...naanga varathuku fees evalavu tharuveenga... :-)

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Syam
Halo echuooseme... Fees neenga varathukka yaaru naanga kudukanuma??? Hahahah SARI SARI...

Neo said...

Crying therapy is a very good idea. I just laughed for it. But seriously its a way where people can release there depression