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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Long time no see...

Are you wondering what made me login in to Blogger.com and scribble something after a long time? Oh yeah, its not that am bored and its not that I want to update my blog, its only because I was reminded about a friend with whom I am no longer in touch with. Or to put it in another way, with whom I no longer wanted to have touch with or time just slipped off and we are feeling far away from each other both geometrically as well as emotionally.



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What do you do when you miss a friend? I usually make a phone call or visit that friend, but when you just don't want to do that what do you do? :) I didn't know what else to do other than sharing it with my dearie dearie friend - My Journal (Blog)

Have you ever had a feeling that you became too close to this friend and you feel like you were with this friend for ages? Like you don't have to explain yourself but this friend understands you so much. But you really have no idea what made you feel afar from this friend? Is it because either of you got busy or either/both of your priorities changed in life?

:( I have no answer for all these but I am just sure that I miss this friend of mine very very badly now!

Miss you!

P.S: Hey you, You who is reading this post, it might be you as well whom I am missing right now. You might be the friend am looking for :) So why don't you just drop a hi 2 me now! ;)

32 comments:

Syed Madar J S said...

Welcome back PK,
Had some similar thoughts, way back in 2007 :)
Probably a mid-blog crisis, when one runs out of ideas - glad, I recovered from that situation ..

http://lifeiskicking.blogspot.com/2007_04_01_archive.html

Anonymous said...

We have all come across situation like this where we carry those memories. Though you don't really get in touch with the old one, keep remembering the good times and carry one (or more) good quality of your friend with you.

Go and make new friends. Cheers!

Compassion Unlimitted said...

HI HI HI
Welcome back ..looks the marriage did the trick of a long lay off..good you found your long lost friend i.e THE BLOG !!

Keep writing your nice posts & looking forward to it
TC
CU

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Syed,
Ha ha ha....Sweet coincidence ;) And by the way I would not call this as mid-blog crisis Becoz i have gone through that earlier ;) I after all started blogging in 2005 :P

This is real Missing Feeling :D

Cheers
PK!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Anon
Wow ...That comment of urs really made a lotttttttttt of sense :) Why dont u sign with ur name atleast even if u dont have any a/c in blogger?? :)

Cheers
PK!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ CU

Wow..Thats so sweet of u :) Thank u for the real warm welcome :D

Sure I would be bugging u and other friends of mine with my writing :)

Cheers
PK!

Ravi said...

so .. the world has got the same kinda feelings all over .. perhaps it just the different ways that is being presented ..

so here is the big 'HI' .. if thatz is not enough .. I wish .. u get it soon ... as u expect ..

- Do blog on it .. some time later on that friend ..

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Ravi
Ha ha ha..Thats indeed sweet of u! :) And yeah i think almost every1 will have 2 pass thru this kinda feeling in life....

Cheers
PK!

Sriram JP said...

PK
Thanks for visiting my blog! I will post as often I can :)
You too have a great blog!

Sriram

Anonymous said...

You carry that signature note of toasting cheers from that friend, won't you?
Cheers!
-Anon

Anonymous said...

why not dropping an email to that friend?

நாணல் said...

that's so nice post for a friend...
but why to miss a friend when you feel their friendship is so worthy.....

Story Teller said...

enaku theriyum yaarunu :)

littleboy said...

hiiiii, ponnnu.... its me ilyas

wassup....i was in qatar and now bak to chennai.... its nice to c u again in bugging(blogging).... i missed t home very much and i knew t feeling when v r at some other place where culture,food,etc are difrnt frm ours...drop me a msg frm ur new num.. hope u r in pune...

littleboy said...

hii ponnu.. wasssup... this is ilyas... its nice to c u again in blogging (bugging) :D ... i was in qatar... now bak to chennai.. i knew the feeling of missing home... wen v r away, entirely changes in food, culture, language, etc.... its tuf to define.. ur blog reminds me t days in qatar... keep it updated.. and btw msg ur new number .. hope u have ma numbr...mail me !!!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Sriram,
Thanks for dropping by :) Hope to see more new posts from you too! :D

Cheers
PK!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Anon,
Aaah....I never noticed that but may be i have 2 check our prev conversations if i carried it over from tht frend without my knowledge :)

Looks like u r tht frend????

Cheers!
PK!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Anon
:-/ I dono!

Cheers
PK!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Naanal
Thanks for dropping by. Thats so easy to ask ;) but very difficult 2 answer :D

Cheers
PK!

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Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Story Teller
Yaaru? :) Enakku mattum ragasiyama sollanum ;)

Cheers
PK!

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Littleboy,

:) Wow..I never knew u follow my blog! Thanks a lot! :)

And yeah I will drop my number soon.....am shuttling btween chennai and pune....:) Will talk 2 u soon ...

Cheers
PK!

Anonymous said...

So, finally what is the accomplishment? Mere satisfaction that you got a feeling of missing a friend and it was well expressed in the web?

Why not, letting the inner obstacles walk out and reach out the friend? If the relationship held was true, of course it deserves the barriers being broken as well. Right?

Good luck!

Anonymous said...

Any updates on the signature stuff? Did you find out? :)

Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

@ Anon
Aaah...I am sorry. There is no match! :) Looks like I have some other friend who is in the loop ;)

Cheers
PK!

dreamscapes said...

a big big big HIIIIIIIIIIII
where hv u gone after writing this post friend?

Yes We (எஸ் வி) said...

‘Hi’ Ponnu,

It’s an emotional one... showing the truth behind everyone’s life... I am sure everyone will miss a (few) friend(s) as u mentioned, sometimes so many other priorities would stop in being touch with loved ones... but sweet memories won't go out from our mind... always we can cherish about that...

Expect a blog from u long time, done a brilliant job my friend... as usual u rocked again... J

I'm little sad since I made my comment very late, but it’s not about time or no of replies, it’s about feelings, emotion and the deep of friendship… whenever someone reads this will feel it...

Be in touch for ever my dear friend... but now u made everyone to understand that though not in touch, friendship and memories won’t go out… J

Cheers,
Snabak Vinod
(SV - Yes We) :-)

ashok said...

COmeon..start blogging again...the blog world misses u :)

Anonymous said...

long time why no write. First advanced happy birthday n belated woman's day wishes.Expecting more blog from you :)

logic said...

Hi how are u ...long time am back to the blog world do drop by
:)

logic said...

Hi Ponnarasi good to see u back again..
when i renterred this onlie world of blogging i missed all my old blog mates..but happy to c u revamped..gives me lot of hope and encouragement to cont writing..thanks for dropping

and not sure if u read the below post (be sure to pop in )

http://lateralplane.blogspot.com/2012/04/paradise-of-trust-hope-and-realness-1.html

Garuda yali said...

we are feeling far away from each other both geometrically as well as emotionally.

I am curious on the geometrically far away ? geographically, emotionally I am aware , geometrically ?

Egos.. some ego.. and some inhibition . neither of you are reaching out for some reason . ego ? or simply don't want to be in touch to put it as you said but yet the thoughts of him/her remains and it makes you speak out to world to let him /her know that you think of him/ her but don't have the guts to tell by a call or email. it happens.. and you are no exception.

I liked the anon provoking your thoughts.